Recently, I had a Skype call with my sister. She is two years younger and lives in the suburbs of Paris, France. We chatted over recent nagging pains and complaints, and eventually shared different views with a gentle reminder to look at the positive side. We ended the call with genuine appreciation and love for each other. I have always felt very lucky to have her as my sister, but our friendship is a rather recent development.
Growing up, we were not close. We fought over ice cream and engaged in sibling rivalry for our busy parents’ attention. Simply, we were very different in character and clashed often.
Growing up my motto was “be strong”. I believed this was my role while my parents were constantly arguing under the financial pressure of running a small printing business. I was too young to be suited to mediate for them, and I believed that if I caved into my pain or complained about my situation, my family would fall apart. I was stoic while my sister cried and rabbled against my father occasionally.
When my sister, at the wise age of 11, advised me that sometime crying could be a sign of strength, I felt the truth in her words but could not accept her way and her attempt to reach out to me.
36 years later, I can appreciate her advice and can cry out for support. It is still not that easy. My partner sometimes has to knock on a shut tight door more than once to get in to my heart, but I know people are there for me, and it is my choice to let them in. In fact, people have always been there for me, yet when I believed I was alone I would not give them a chance to show up. Of course, both my sister and I have grown up a bit and we’ve traded our old pains and beliefs for new attitudes more suited for the love we desire. It is a process, and it is empowering indeed!
Today I get to share my client’s journey. Trisha overcame heartbreak and created new love in her life by shedding her fear and convictions through hard work and an eagerness towards coaching.
I often tell my new clients that an Energy Reading is a very helpful tool to understand their current situation, yet we still need to take action to achieve the future we desire. Coaching supports that.
Please enjoy the outcome Trisha created for herself. I look forward to being a part of your empowering journey towards your happiness!
Happy Summer to you,
“My first reading with you was absolutely mind blowing. It helped me really understand where I was in my life and how my life was in such a drastic transition. I thought I had so much negative energy surrounding me after the breakup. After the first reading, I felt rejuvenated. As if I could conquer anything. I felt high on life. Hearing of my past life with my ex helped me realize all of the emotions I was feeling. I had so many mixed emotions that I couldn't comprehend what I was feeling. I realized it wasn't love, but more so of a forced love. I was with him for four years. Though he blamed me for everything, I still felt I had to love him unconditionally like in my past life of him being my son. I soon realized that he was not the problem for me, but I had to work on myself if I really wanted to be happy. I signed up for 6 session coaching package with Kaori. During my coaching, I was all over the place. I jumped around, trying to figure out what it is I desired and what I wanted out of these sessions. It was much like my life at the time — all over the place. Each time I came out of a coaching session, I felt rejuvenated and high on life. Regardless of what we went over, it was exactly what my mind, body, and soul needed. It wasn't long before I met my new boyfriend. It felt like a complete 180 from the boyfriend I had to who I am with now. I know my worth now. I know what it is I deserve, and he gives me exactly what I need to be happy. We communicate on a higher level. He treats me with the respect I deserve. I am truly and honestly happy. We recently engaged!
My entire life, I thought it was my career that was the most important. I made my decisions in life based off of what was best for my future and my career. However, I learned through my coaching that it wasn't my main priority. It was an expectation I felt from my friends and family. From outside sources. But my true desire is to have a family. For the first time in my life, I chose love versus what was best for my career. I feel that if I haven't met and spoken to Kaori that I wouldn't have understood the true value of myself. I truly appreciate what she has done for me. Kaori will continue to be a great resource for each transition I have in my life. Thank you so much!!”
Trisha, chiropractor,Seattle, WA
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